met a girl yesterday..she wants to marry a man..she loves him too much..but he belongs to another caste and from another state..is this a problem.?i don't think so..but her parents think so.she loves him as her life partner..she loves her father too..their relation is too close.she is in dilemma.she needs both..what can i say.?how can we change the system?is living together a better solution.?